Tuesday, June 18, 2013
Now I know it's been some time since I have posted it seems having two children with things going on for them has made me one very busy Mum. Anyway so this year when I took my 4 year old to the pediatrician it was a shock and to be honest I never thought it was as bad as they said it was. He come up quite badly apparently my son who was 52 months old was coming up at around 36 months in four areas which is a far cry from where he should have been. Even now 5 months later it still brings tears to my eyes.
What brings me to this post is my recent investigation into what dyspraxia and motor planning mean, surprisingly looking back I even see it written in my eldest child's OT reports. When we took my 4 year old to a second paediatrician yep I wanted a second opinion. We did feel that the report was rather short and there wasn't enough information. The paediatrician discussed his concern about his motor planning skills. It was evident because he struggled to work out how to get onto the bed, and even drawing a person was hard work for him and he looked at me and said "I can't do it Mum" as reassuring as I could be I told him that "just try, do you best" this made me fall apart on the inside.
Hearing that the paediatrician believes that he's going to find things hard, school will be hard, all the things that you do at school cutting, drawing is going to be tough for him, not every day just some of them. Honestly you want your children to do their best, but seeing my boy look at me and say I can't do it and knowing that in that moment he couldn't. I thought back to all the mornings and even this morning where he struggled to get dressed, even tonight it was a major drama. It's hard work but I realised that it is harder for him, sometimes he can't do it and I know that sometimes we tell him off even though we didn't know at the time he couldn't. Hindsight can be painful.
Once we got home and I started thinking about what he the paediatrician, I was then worrying about everything does he mean dyspraxia how bad is it, what does it really mean? So researching I found some information first in Raising a Sensory Smart Child on page 202 it says that "motor planning, also called praxis, is the ability to conceptualise, plan and to perform an unfamilar action... if a child is dyspraxic, he has trouble figuring out how to do non-habitual actions. The problem may occur at any point in the process: a child may have trouble coming up with an idea of what to do, how to plan and organise what his body needs to do, and/or how to sequence and execute these movements." The phrase "I don't know and I can't" are reverberating in my head when I read this. I know my boy is not severe in his motor planning issues but I can admit that I know it is an issue for him and adequate support is essential for him
Another book I referred to is the Out of Sync Child possibly also known as the bible for Sensory Processing Issues, it has a checklist for how a child with dyspraxia presents:
- Have trouble conceiving of, organising and performing activities that involve a sequence of movements, such as cutting, pasting, colouring, assembling collage pieces or recipe ingredients, applying nail polish, and so forth. Novel experiences as well as familar activities may be difficult.
- Have poor gross-motor control for running, climbing and jumping.
- Have poor eye-hand coordination.
- Require visual cues to perform certain motor tasks that other children can do without looking, such as zipping, snapping, buttoning, and unbuttoning clothes.
- Put on gloves or socks in unusual ways
- Have poor fine motor control of his fingers for precise manual tasks, eg., holding and using eating utensils and classroom tools, such as crayons, scizzors, staplers and hold punches.
- Struggle with hand-writing, drawing, completing work-sheets, and similar tasks.
- Have poor fine-motor control of his toes for walking barefoot or in flip-flops.
- Have poor fine-motor control of his mouth muscles for sucking, swallowing, chewing and speaking.
- Be a messy eater.
- Have poor self-help skills and not be a self starter, requiring another persons help to get going."Pg 108-109
After waiting some time we finally got the report with some information further about this, and apparently at this time he hasn't been diagnosed as dyspraxic however it doesn't mean that he won't either. So for now, I have worked out something humbling sometimes they aren't not doing what they are told to be naughty, sometimes just sometimes they actually can't do it. Once again I realise how much I don't know!
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Today I stumbled upon a post of a limited time only reduction of the price of this app, EASE pro. I moved fast and I was rewarded unfortunately the app price reduction wasn't for long. However I thought for those who missed out it might be helpful to see what is available should you decided to purchase this in the future.
On the left is the main screen you see when you open the app. Just as in the theme of a sound engineer's interface what else would you expect from app designers who specialise in sound engineering apps. First up you see a preset number which you can change which changes the effects of the modulation of the sounds. Below the presets the headphones represents user settings, on the right you can change individual side settings turning down the volume or cancelling the sound.
Below this row the dial looking button allows you to open the settings. On the right of that is the play and skip buttons. Before playing you need to select the module you will be using. When you press play the time lapsed is showing in the larger screen.
You can also add more modules from this screen, below that you will see the results of the modules that were adding during installation.
Below you will see the screen showing the modules available on the select module screen, the Native module comes with the purchase of the app. Following this you can purchase within the app from my quick research it is a little more expensive from within the app, however as you can see if you go to the Ease listening website and purchase the app modules from there, they are much cheaper.
Now I have you a quick tour of the app and it's features, I feel I also need to give an introduction of what Ease listening is. So I first was introduced to this therapy type when my son Josiah was exhibited some symptoms because of a clearing of fluid in his ears and we noticed a dramatic difference in how he was reacting to noise and other issues.
Here is a link for a post "a new exciting sensory processing tool on your idevice" some information when this app was first released with a few links to their websites. When we first started listening therapy or therapeutic listening here is some of the journey that I recorded in this blog firstly "sensory therapy" and further on "progress of sensory therapy" some interesting effects in "it's the little things we miss" and then a month later "it's only the beginning". At this point we really noticed the difference and my son at 5 learnt how to put his socks on, pretty major stuff. For us it really made a difference from a child who was scattered, couldn't put his socks on and various other issues to someone who was much more organised able to do things like make a bed, or follow a routine.